Science of Making Your Prayers Answered – So’ham Asmi

Science of Making Your Prayers Answered – So’ham Asmi


nithyānandeśvara samārambhām
nithyānandeśvari madhyamām | asmat āchārya paryantām
vande guru paramparām || I welcome all of you with my love and respects. I welcome all of the devotees, disciples,
samajis, satsangis, Srimahants, Mahants, Kotharis, Thanedars, owners of Sarvajnapeetha, devotees,
disciples, everyone sitting with us all over the world through Nithyananda TV, two-way
video conferencing having Nayana Deeksha all over the world. Cities sitting with us having
Nayana Deeksha – Toronto Aadhenam, Pheonix Aadhenam, Bogota Colombia, Los Angeles Aadhenam,
St. Louis Aadhenam, Indrani Newjersey, Waarington UK, Trinidad Tobago, Hyderabad Guptakashi,
Houston Aadhenam, St. Louis, Colombo, Hyderabad Aadheenam, Dakota Dunes and Charlotte Srisailam
and lot more cities are joining like Oman Aadheenam, Phoenix Aadhenam, Mukta, so many
more cities are joining, Hyderabad Guptakashi, Indrani New Jersey. I can see all of you. I welcome all of you with my love and respects. Before entering into the next verse, I only
wanted to add these few ideas. Please understand, whenever you pray….See prayer is the important
component of our life especially if you are a seeker. Just like breathing, prayer becomes
very important part of you. Prayer just becomes you! Prayer becomes important ‘You.’ Please understand the word I am uttering – Prayer
becomes important YOU. I am not saying – to you, for you. Important YOU: means one part
of you should become a prayer. Prayer is very important component, very important part of
your life, especially if you are seeker. But, you always need to know the right context
and understanding you need to hold during prayer. When you pray to a deity or Guru,
have this context – I am praying to the Source where you and me are one and the same.
I do not know whether that Source is here or there; because in the beginning when you
are too much inside, the Source will be outside. Slowly, slowly when you start becoming lighter
and lighter, the Source will move inside. Please understand, in the beginning when you
are too much occupied inside, the Source where you and the Guru or God meeting, the source
point will be outside. Because you are too much inside, how can that Source be here?
But, slowly, slowly when you become lighter and lighter, more and more have completion,
the Source moves inside. (4.51 mins) So pray, “Oh the Source, where you and me
are one and the same, I pray to you, you make this into reality.” Whatever you want to
say, say. In this way, you will never feel cheated. Understand, Guru will not give you
what you want. Your stupid mind will try to make you feel – you have been cheated. It
is like, I have seen in India, girls, the moment they become 19, just because father
does not buy a cell phone for her, they develop a love affair with a boy who will gift a cell
phone and run away, get married. They don’t live more than 1 or 2 years, divorce and come
back. Please understand, I am not talking something exaggerated. I am talking something
happening in villages. When she is depressed, that father is not giving her cell phone,
that boy is using that depression to put himself as a hero into her. Once she feels he is hero,
over. Understand, always the negative sources will try to show themselves as hero to you,
when you feel you are not granted the boon you asked from Guru or God, whatever.
That is why I tell you, always pray to the Source, “Oh Source, where you and me are
one and the same, the So’ham Asmi is Reality, I do not know whether that Source is now in
Guru’s being or in this body”, it is based on the level of completion you have. If you
have too much incompletion inside you, naturally the Source will be on the Guru’s being.
If there is less incompletion, more completion in you, the Source will start moving towards
you. When you become completely complete, the Source will be centered on you.
So you don’t even have to worry where the Source is. Just say, “Oh the Source, where
‘me and you’ are one and the same and make…” whatever you wanted, you can ask
him, and ask him, “please make this into reality.” You can also put a footnote, “if
something I am asking is not right for me, then give me the intelligence to develop myself
or you can also say, “even if you think it is not right, I want only this..” No!
You have a right, you have right. All I am asking you is: have the right understanding
so that, that prayer becomes a beautiful process for you to experience Oneness, Advaita.
Understand, please remember, whether we understand or not, catch it or not, indeed, the reality
is SO’HAM ASMI. That is what the Upanishad uses the word INDEED. Whether you got it or
not yet got it, SOH’AM ASMI, I Am He. So, whether you stand in front of Ganesh,
Venkatesh, Mahadev, Kalabhairava or your Guru, tell – “Whatever is the Source where you
and me are one and the same. I pray to you. I pray to that. Please make this as a reality.”
In this way, your every moment of prayer will be a process for you to achieve Oneness, Living
Enlightenment, Advaita. Go on praying, even if you have not got what you wanted, you will
get what HE wanted. Even if you don’t get what you wanted, you will get what HE wanted.
That is what I am telling you, the prayer should be put in the right context. (9.40 mins)
I tell you, if I have to write my autobiography in word – I should say a lonnnngg prayer
with the context of So’ham Asmi. A long unbroken prayer from the space of Soham Asmi.
Long unbroken prayer from the space of So’ham Asmi. Now, I have nothing to pray but I just
fall into that space of SO’HAM ASMI and be there, express that joy in this few face
muscles, and I know – It’s a Oneness, beauty of Oneness. Understand, your life should be a lonngg prayer
from the context of SOHAM ASMI. From the wrong context, prayer will always be painful. With
right context, prayer can be an amazing process for Oneness. It can be great completion, even
if you feel little tired of reliving, completing and all that, prayer can replace it immediately.
And prayer can be amazing spiritual process for you to experience Oneness. You can tell Him, Oh Source! I feel bored
of doing all this completion, this that. I know you are intelligent and capable of making
completion happen in me, please make it.” That is enough. It can be such a strong, powerful
process, such a strong, powerful process for completion and understand, never ever a prayer
uttered from the right context goes waste or unheard. Never think, never doubt, it goes
waste or unheard. You can shake Sun. You can move Moon. You are not just a developed version
of monkey. No! You are not just a developed version of monkey. You can move Sun, move
Moon! Prayer from the right context will directly lead you to Enlightenment without any of that
feeling cheated. If you have wrong context about the prayer, only then you will feel
cheated. “Oh I prayed for 10 years for this, He did not give me.” When you pray from
the right context: He may not given what you asked, He would have given Himself to you. (13.20 mins) There is a beautiful song I wanted you guys
to listen to that song first. Then, I will continue my satsang. I never thought I will
addicted to a song. And day and night the song is vibrating in my room and in the loud
music. I have become like a teenage boy with loud sound and disturbing everyone around
my apartment. I really wanted you guys to listen because that song is so beautiful.
Actually, that can be beautiful commentary for that prayer I am talking about now, that
So’ham Asmi. The line goes, “I asked you flower you gave
the forest. I asked you water, you gave the nectar. What should I ask, for you to give
yourself to me. What should I ask, for you to give yourself to me.” And so on, this
way it continues – it says that….I think you guys should listen only then I will translate.
Its too beautiful. This should become Sangha anthem till we find next song. See the prayer
from the right context, you will get what you want. If that is not good for you, you
will be given the intelligence, energy to handle. And ultimately, He Himself will be
there for you. He Himself will be there giving Himself to you. The context, the beauty of
that SOHAM ASMI, being the context of prayer, being the context of your love affair with
God. Your ups and downs with God. Listen to this song, then I will continue. (15.52 mins) Understand, you are never too old to cry in
love in prayerful mood. You are never too old or too grown up to be lost in the love
and space of prayer. So this song, it is such an ecstasy. Last I think two days, he sent
two days before, from the time he sent, like a teenage boy, this song is in full loud volume
in my room, apartment, going on and on and on, day and night. Nowadays, I am not sleeping
properly like your biological clock, my biological clock is doing on his own and I am just cooperating
with it. Early morning 2.30 I am sitting and listening to this song. May be I will tell
somebody to give you guys the English translation also. Yu guys can enjoy. Actually this is
so beautiful, I I will translate and tell you guys. First line – (tamil) means: I asked you
for few flowers, but the gave the whole forest to me.” Please understand, when He gives
HE does not give based on your standard, He gives based on His standard, understand. When
He gives He does not give from your standard, He gives from His standard. He doesn’t think,
“Oh for him, his standard, this is okay, give.” No! The giver, My standard should
be made. A statement should be made frpm My standard. That is the way He gives. (tamil….) means: I asked for water to quench
my thirst, you gave the nectar itself to quench all thirst. After that no more possibility
of any thirst anymore. Just a little bit of breast milk from Mahadevi Parvati to Jnana
Sambandar, for his whole life he became a Nirahari. He never opened the mouth again
other than to sing the glory of Mahadeva. Never ate anything. What is there to drink
after having Devi’s breast milk? So, once you taste the nectar nothing more, nothing
else is there to eat or drink. All your thirst is quenched. “So, I asked for water, Oh
you gave nectar.” And what should I ask? I can say the next
line is (tamil 19.14 mins), means: how should I ask for you to give you to me? How should
I ask for you to give you to me? Actually, this SO’HAM ASMI is the answer for this
whole song. SO’HAM ASMI is the answer for this whole song. This song is beautifully
written from the space of prayer. I will write a song on this same tone, from the space to
whom it is prayed and bring it to you guys as a receiver of prayer, from that space I
will give you few more lines. Next line says – (tamil 20.21 mins): what
should I ask you to give you to me. Or how should I ask you for you to give you to me?” The next stanza: (tamil 20. 39 mins) – I
was lost in the wild forest, you appeared as away out. (tamil) I was lost in the darkness,
but you came as the Light. Tell me, where should I get lost for you to come directly.
(Tamil) Tell me, where should I get lost for you to come directly. I was lost in the wild
forest, you came as a way out. I was lost in the utter darkness, you came as a light,
where should I get lost, in what should I get lost, how should I get lost for you to
come to me, you yourself to come directly to me. (Tamil…) And the next stanza is: (Tamil): I fell into
the ditch, pit you raised to the peak. (Tamil)… I fell into the flood, you brought me to bank,
you brought me to the shore. (Tamil) means: I fell into the ditch, you raised into the
peak. I fell into the flood, you brought me the shore. Where should I fall… The next
line is: (Tamil….) Where should I fall that you will make me reach you. Tell me where
should I fall, so you will reach me to you. (Tamil…) That’s all. May be just few lines, but it is too sweet
and too intimate. Actually, when I heard this song, I just literally went through what I
went through with Arunagiri Yogishwara. I had an amazing Guru. It’s not that he never
trained me. He used to be so ferocious with me in many times. But His love for me and
my trust in His love was more stronger than His ferociousness. His Dakshinamurti dimension
was more stronger than his Kalabhairava dimension. So I still always remember him with lot of
romance than training, lot of love than training. So, I declare this as Sangha anthem. I will
be the song for our Sangha, Sangha anthem till we find
the next song. (Swamiji sings in Tamil….) Alright, I will compose and bring it to you
guys. The solution, answer for this question, “where should I lose myself for you to give
YOU? Where should I get lost for you to appear? what should I ask, how should I ask for you
to give You to me? The answer is: be lost in that space of SO’HAM ASMI. Remember the
right context of prayer and pray. He will give Himself to you. I guarantee, I commit,
I will give Myself to you. Because, the words you utter during prayer gets bolted in your
muscle-memory, the context you hold gets bolted in your bio-memory. Whatever gets bolted in
your bio-memory becomes Reality. So understand. With this, I will let you go and fall into
the space of this song. I know the song will be now reverberating in every room and every
laptop, ad everywhere, all over the Sangha. So enjoy. I will get back to you guys into
the answer song. This is more a question song. This song raises only questions. And I will
get you guys the answer. With this I bless you all: Let you guys radiate
with integrity, authenticity, responsibility, enriching, causing Living Shuddha Advaita
Shaivam, the eternal bliss. Nithyananda. Thank you. Be blissful.

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54 Comments

  1. My guru, From the space of sohamasmi, where you and me are one and the same, let love, light and joy radiate through the universe.

  2. QUESTION:
    If I am GOD and you are GOD, than why do you say that when we pray that (He) whoever you are speaking about.
    Why would that one GOD have another power to say no or yes to my prayer?

    Why does another GOD have a say about what I want?

    If we are all GOD than no other one that is also GOD has the right to say I should or should not get what I am praying about?

    Please think about this!

    This is my belief about things now! Thank you, I am grateful to finally know that you even exist. I never knew she even had a brother!
    Baba named you after his beloved Bagahvan Nithyananda. Thank you! Nithyananda!

  3. I am understanding that we all are GOD and we are all one and the same, so no other should have the say whether anyone gets or does not get what they want in prayer. I believe we all must learn our lessons, but no one has another power over me, because I am GOD, with the exact power we all are! I am one with my source and so is everyone else, this is the only way I believe now. It's my thinking that creates my reality I believe in the secret. What I think is what I get! Thank you with much respect to everyone.

  4. Context is everything! So much of acceptance and clarity happened about why some prayers are not answered. Never are we separate from the SOURCE!

  5. This is the first time ever I came to know what is the Hindu way of Worship. Thank you Swamiji. All HIndus Please watch and learn how to Pray.

  6. "que nous le comprenions ou pas, la réalité est Soham Asmi, je suis Lui. Nous sommes la source ! merci infiniment Swamiji pour cette aide constante et bénéfique pour nous tous , pour ces profondes vérités !

  7. Even when I am praying you and me are from the same source. Even, if I don`t cognize it completely, that is the reality nonetheless. Nithyanandam! 🙂

  8. Sohamasmi. I was lost in jungle, you came as way.. I was lost in darkness, you came as light.. where shall I get lost so that I reach you ../

  9. Sri Nithyananda Swami is well-known for his clear understanding that metaphysics is actually a science; a perspective that is endorsed by many physicists as well as philosophers. Here he decodes the "mystery" of how prayers are granted.

  10. Prayer in the space of Soham Asmi is pure devotion, completion, oneness.
    Then no questions, only answers!
    Gratitude to Guru's vaak.

  11. Prayer like never explained before. No other religion has this attitude. Thank you Swamiji to be connected to you.

  12. Soham Asmi!!!!! <3 <3 one of my favorite videos on prayer and God and the connection…..soooo beautifully described. Thank you Swami!!! <3

  13. Paramahamsa Nithyananda propounds the glory of Prayer from the right context of SOHAM ASMI – Oneness with the Source – “Prayer just becomes you. When you pray to a deity or Guru, have this context – I am praying to the Source where you and me are one and the same. Oh the Source, where you and me are one and the same – Soham Asmi. I pray to you, you make this into reality.” Unveiling His own inner space, He reveals that His life is one long prayer with the context of Soham Asmi, indeed, I am HE

  14. Prayer just becomes you…Prayer is vital for every seeker…..One part of you should become a prayer….our context of prayer must be "i am praying to the source where you and me are one"……When you are completely complete the source will be centred on you…prayer ultimately leads us to oneness

  15. Science of Making Your Prayers Answered – So'ham Asmi.Living Avatar, Sri Paramahamsa Nithyananda Swamiji himself revealing how to have our prayers answered. Heights of compassion, indeed.

  16. Thank you so much swamiji for such a unique wisdom pouring out of you everyday! Blessed to be your disciple!

  17. I'm so happy to have gone through different levels of completion with any enlightened word He utters, that is leading to a chill space, bliss or glory, something beyond description ! Don't miss just any word from Him!

  18. What a lovely video, what a Beautiful song, what beautiful words, what a wisdom… It made me tear… Such a pure & innocent soul…. Love you Swamiji…🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽😀🙏🏽😀🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  19. A long unbroken prayer:

    I asked you for a few flowers, but you gave the whole forest to me!

    I asked you for water to quench my thirst, but you gave me nectar!

    How should I ask for you to give Yourself to me?

    I was lost in a wild forest.  You appeared as a way out.
    I was lost in the darkness, but you came as light.
    Where should I get lost, how should I get lost- for you to come to me?
    I fell into the  ditch.  You raised me to the peak.
    I fell into the flood.  You brought me to the shore.
    Where should I fall, that will make me reach me to you?
    -Be lost in that space of Oneness
    Thank you Paramahamsa Nithyananda

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